Condescension/Being Talked Down To
Condescension/Being Talked Down To
I’ve desired this for a long time. It’s not really about becoming an object - it’s more than that. It’s about becoming the ultimate tool for my partner’s pleasure, knowing I’m the reason he/she is feeling so good.
Moreso, it’s about being dominated. It’s a reminder of who’s in charge. Mmmf… And I find that so hot.
That self-confidence in “You like that, don’t you?” really turns me on. Truly being used and dominated - oof. HOT. I feel sexy and capable in those moments… Which seems strange, but knowing my partner doesn’t REALLY think I’m a “little bitch” is key. He/she likes me enough to do these things for me in bed - I appreciate it. :)
Furthermore, this kind of talk really “puts me in my place.” Instant headspace, instant physical response.
Ever since I saw that porn video (the first one I ever watched like this. I was instantly intrigued when I saw how the guy spoke to his partner, saying things like, “You like that, don’t you, you little bitch/slut?”), I craved that, but at first I didn’t understand why because I didn’t know about BDSM or aftercare.
Now that I realize that these things don’t have to exist independently of each other, I desire it even more.
--Ginger
